OK I need to know when its time to realize that a friendship between a man and woman is not healthy. I am a romantic at heart and believe in love and believe in "friends forever", but I am starting to think I am just living in a fantasy world. This man that I am "friends" with seems to want the best of both worlds. He wants to be single, talking to lots of woman, out doing his thing without having to answer to anyone, and still have me in his life for those times when he wants to feel warm and cozy. No, we don't have any physical relations anymore, just strictly go out to eat,