hmmmmm,well almost everyone would say that they would like to marry,some of them also say that marriage is a punishment.now who is correct. i consider marriage to be a holy sacrament. it is a blessing.but now a days this relationship doesn't seem to be permanent. many are divorcing only after one year of their marriage. now when you read all these its better to remain a bachelor. what

I have one very simple issue: I'm totally afraid to commit. I sabotage every potential relationship.Thought I aknowledge that I have a problem, I don't know how to deal with it. letting go of fear is easier to say than do. what would you suggest?Thank you in advance. Hey, first off, thanks for the warm welcome. Commitment can be kind of daunting: there's a lot of work involved, a lot of freedoms lost, and most importantly, the nature of a commitment makes it a long-term thing. Not everybody has the same definition of a healthy relationship. Is sharing freedom important to you? Maybe a