My Life In Duality

At times we yearn to just feel close to somebody We auction off our bodies to the highest bidder, in an attempt to feel wanted We want so badly to connect with another being To share ourselves We long for the validation of some one else Our inner truths scream "LOVE ME" But we're ashamed of this We hate ourselves for needing someone so badly We despise our selves for not being able to give ourselves evertyhing we need If we must depend on another for completion.... Can it ever be achieved?

Well I guessthat depends on who you ask. As for me it depends on which day you ask me. Iwill admit to being one of those Women who really doesn’t know what she wants.I like to attribute my indecisiveness to being a Gemini. Helps me feel betterabout it. Part of me wants a Rich man with a Big Penis and a Monster tongue totravel around the world with Eating, Drinking, watching strippers and havingsweaty sex in wild places. I want him to blow my mind, body and soul. I want tofuck on the beach,...

The Trillion Dollar Question: "What these bitches want from a nigga?" Answer: 1. Money 2.Swag End of article. It's that simple if your just strictly looking fora good time, but once you step into the relationship arena, oh boy things get alot more complicated....things like love, understanding, commitment, caring allstart coming into place, but don't think you can leave those other three pointsalone 1. Money 2. Swag 3. and good sex must remain. So how do you balance allof these without...

*Stretches and yawns* I begin to adjust my eyes to thedarkness. The first thing I realize… I have clearly drunk a lot the previousnight. Wait is it morning? My vision begins to clear. By the looks of this room…I am definitely at the Westin. I’d recognize this room décor in the dark. Wellthis is either a good sign or a really bad sign. Waking up in a strange hotel?But hey…. At least it’s the Westin right? Am I alone? A voice from behind mewhispers “Are you awake Baby?” Nope, clearly not alone....

Life as a Mistress (Right or Wrong) – A post written from the point of view of “the other woman” infidelity is always a relevant topic but we never really hear from the person who is being cheated with. How it started, why it started, why she continues. Perks, benefits pros and cons…. So on and so onI’m not sure what part of my stroll screams “HI I’m MORALLY CORRUPT” but apparently men all over the world feel as though they can share their infidelities with me. HOW IT STARTED : I met a guy...

We both came to the conclusion that the Dating Game is in acomplete state of disaster right now; At least for people in our age group(25-35). Our first question was… Where the hell do I find someone to date? Theclub… clearly that’s not the best idea. Then you run into the problem of thatbeing the place your significant other wants to be every weekend. Your job?That’s just a recipe for disaster (which deserves its own post) So let’s say by some miracle of nature you find someone thatyou like...

fellatio on a Man is degrading herself; and a Man who performs Cunningulus on a Woman... isnt really a Man at all! Something that was intended to be sensual intimate pleasurable experience between two people, has turned into a game of numbers for immature boys and wishful thinking for some Women. We live in the era of RIGHT NOW! Our need to have everything move so fast has transcended into the bedroom. Seems like its all about the act itself... wham bam thank you ma'am! Good Sex is like a...

"I'm Nervous and I'm trembling... waiting for you to walk in... trying Hard to Relax... but I... Just can’t keep still." Ugh, this Betty Wright song just keeps re-playing itself in my head! What the hell have I gotten myself into? It’s been Months since I've had Sex and it seems like a LIFETIME since I've had GOOD SEX! On top of that, though I'm not proud to say this... it’s been sooooo long since I've had sober sex. Yeah yeah I know! I don't know if it was just that my sex partner was so bad...

I have this theory that most Single Gals need more than oneman in their life. Think about it… how is it humanly possible for just oneperson to give you everything you need? Most men aren’t willing and out ofthose who are… their means, availability, intelligence or overall sex appealprevent them from doing so. For the Single Gal, life is like a Baskin Robbins…31 Flavors and you’re bound to find a few you like… The DATER : All Women should have one of these. This is the guy whomakes weekend...

And finally we come to the most important … “the Mistress” This woman can come from anywhere at any time. She does nothave a man of her own. In some cases she will want your man for herself, in anysmart case… she knows better. This is “the other Woman” in your Man’s life. Heis involved in the daily workings of her life and she in his. He pays herbills, takes her out and may even know her family. Themistress’ of the world are living, breathing and operating right under yournose. Your Man’s...

Only the lucky girls find these. This guy is usually aconsiderable amount older than you. He’s the “I need my hair and nails done”guy. He has a great Career and a nice car. Most of the time divorced with kids’right around your age. He feels old and you make him feel young again. And inreturn for that great service he pays some of your bills and kicks you cashwhen your need. The problem with the Sugar Daddy

HOMIE –LOVER-FRIEND Most often an old girlfriend, friend from the past or business associate. She understands him and listens to him. She’s the one he calls when he doesn’t know what to do with your fussing ass. Every few months, even once a year… they meet up and have hot sweaty sex then they go back to their respective lives. No Strings Attached. ...