Advice Column

here we go. you know how people say that if a women says no it means yes. I'm the kind of person who when hears no, understands it as no. I just want your opinion on this. If girls say no to a relationship do the guys need to turn on their stubbornness or just move on? there was a time when i met a girl, liked her, but received a no, and styed friends was it right for me to do so or i should have kept trying? Having taken an unnecessarily long hiatus from this site, due to percieved inactivity in my inbox, I've returned to find that this gem has been waiting for me for ...

Recently, the owner of a collaborative fiction roleplay website I frequent stepped down and was replaced by a close friend of mine. I've been having a hard time keeping up with the posting requirements due to real-life constraints, and when confronted about it, I tried to explain this to my friend, the new site administrator, but she insisted that I step down. Since I felt my hand was being forced, I quit the site all together, and have found that she is posting several updates with direct, negative references to me on the website. Am I being childish by staying mad at her and not talking to her?This ...

I have one very simple issue: I'm totally afraid to commit. I sabotage every potential relationship.Thought I aknowledge that I have a problem, I don't know how to deal with it. letting go of fear is easier to say than do. what would you suggest?Thank you in advance. Hey, first off, thanks for the warm welcome. Commitment can be kind of daunting: there's a lot of work involved, a lot of freedoms lost, and most importantly, the nature of a commitment makes it a long-term thing. Not everybody has the same definition of a healthy relationship. Is sharing freedom important to you? Maybe a ...

So, over time I've found that I do best when helping others with their problems rather than worrying so much about my own. Isn't that just the way of things? So for the longest time I've been tempted to start a little advice column of my own; keep myself out of trouble and all.Luckily, this site has everything I need to do this -- a blog space to post the column itself, a private-message inbox to receive questions in, a good rating and comment system to keep me on-target, bio / memory space to let people know what I'm all about, and -- bonus! -- revenue share so that all the time I waste ...