How Can We Deal With Regrets In A Way That Makes Them Less Painful?

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How Can We Deal With Regrets In A Way That Makes Them Less Painful?

Needless to say, having regret(s) isn't easy to deal with. I recently ran into a question that asked for people's thoughts on how to keep regret from becoming to stressful/painful. This is a Hub I wrote in response to that question. It's not expert advice, and I don't even if know if my approach is a good one. It is, however, what's always helped me (at least some) to live with regrets I have.

http://lisahuntwarren.blogspot.com/2011/11/how-can-we-deal-with-regrets-in-way.html

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by Lisa H. Warren
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