I have one very simple issue: I'm totally afraid to commit. I sabotage every potential relationship.Thought I aknowledge that I have a problem, I don't know how to deal with it. letting go of fear is easier to say than do. what would you suggest?Thank you in advance. Hey, first off, thanks for the warm welcome. Commitment can be kind of daunting: there's a lot of work involved, a lot of freedoms lost, and most importantly, the nature of a commitment makes it a long-term thing. Not everybody has the same definition of a healthy relationship. Is sharing freedom important to you? Maybe a

So, over time I've found that I do best when helping others with their problems rather than worrying so much about my own. Isn't that just the way of things? So for the longest time I've been tempted to start a little advice column of my own; keep myself out of trouble and all.Luckily, this site has everything I need to do this -- a blog space to post the column itself, a private-message inbox to receive questions in, a good rating and comment system to keep me on-target, bio / memory space to let people know what I'm all about, and -- bonus! -- revenue share so that all the time I waste